Let's face it, anyone's success in relationships is not to be found in any one special quality. Not in any particular body feature. Not in any particular personality type. Success is found in the combination of a whole series of things. These are made up of your face & body & personality and who sees or experiences your face, body or personality at a particular place and time. And most particularly what they like about your face or body or personality. Your toes, or your laugh, or your chin, or your interest in them. Who can say what anyone else likes about you? Some guys like curvy, some like thin. Some girls like tall, some like short. The possibilities are endless...
So let's have a look at what your life is about, so that you can get more out of life and form relationships that are fulfilling to you.
Maybe you haven't been able to attract interest in yourself. Maybe you've been attracting the wrong kind of interest, for example sexual interest instead of friendship, or maybe the other way round, friendship instead of sexual interest. Or you've been attracting some people but they're the wrong kind of people. Maybe you realised that at the beginning, or maybe you've found it out quite recently. Maybe it's only after a long period you've come to understand that your relationship is completely off course. It doesn't matter which realisation you've had or how long the relationship has been going. Or not going.
What you need is a way to STOP and have a reality check. LOOK at yourself and others in a new light. Once you can see your assets clearly, LISTEN to your instinct and your reasoning thoughts, simultaneously. Then do something about what's bugging you.
I suggest starting over and recognising that you are the most important person to you - and that you need to follow what you want in life - in your career & especially in a relationship.
You need to make the most of life - so the first step is to find out what turns you on.
And remember, a good relationship begins within you. Be happy with yourself - only then can you make someone else happy.
So let's have a look at what your life is about, so that you can get more out of life and form relationships that are fulfilling to you.
Maybe you haven't been able to attract interest in yourself. Maybe you've been attracting the wrong kind of interest, for example sexual interest instead of friendship, or maybe the other way round, friendship instead of sexual interest. Or you've been attracting some people but they're the wrong kind of people. Maybe you realised that at the beginning, or maybe you've found it out quite recently. Maybe it's only after a long period you've come to understand that your relationship is completely off course. It doesn't matter which realisation you've had or how long the relationship has been going. Or not going.
What you need is a way to STOP and have a reality check. LOOK at yourself and others in a new light. Once you can see your assets clearly, LISTEN to your instinct and your reasoning thoughts, simultaneously. Then do something about what's bugging you.
I suggest starting over and recognising that you are the most important person to you - and that you need to follow what you want in life - in your career & especially in a relationship.
You need to make the most of life - so the first step is to find out what turns you on.
And remember, a good relationship begins within you. Be happy with yourself - only then can you make someone else happy.
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